Tuesday 20 December 2011

How to save your relationship



Talking about your love relationship, I’m sure it’s one thing you value so much and you can do anything to keep it going. If you desire a better love life, you and your partner have to be mindful of your friends and close pals. This is because these friends can make or destroy your relationship. My advice to you and your partner is that you both should only keep friends that support your relationship. If a friend does not support your relationship, then he or she must be shown the door exist. This is because, that kind of friend will only destroy what you love so much which is your relationship.
Both you and your partner have to keep people away from your relationship, hide certain things away from them. Not even your parents should be giving access to your relationship completely. If you love something, you guide and protect it.
Some friends maybe jealous of your relationship and may come like good friends that cares and start offering certain advice to you which may affect your relationship negatively. Any problem you find out in your relationship, try sorting it out with your partner calmly. Do not take the matter outside for someone else to advice you on it. You can only do this if the person is in support of your relationship and the person admires you guys. Solution to any problem in a relationship is not through break up but through dialogue. SAVE YOUR RELATIONSHIP.

Monday 19 December 2011

How to set your relationship right



Relationship involves two persons and since no man is perfect the two should learn to adjust their behaviour to suite both partners. What do I mean by adjusting? Since nobody is perfect the both partners are bond to have flaws, so the partners should identify their flaws. One of the partners should identify what the order partner is not comfortable with and adjust, because if you really love your partner, his or her her happiness should be paramount. Breakup most times happens because of selfishness; the two want to live their lives without considering the fact that relationship is about two persons and adjust, take for instance I’m this serious minded type of a girl but my man loves my attention; he loves frequent calling and texting, I didn’t give him the excuse of being a busy person, I just learn to adjust. If you do not like his temper or the way he threats you tell him to change or quit because you will not be happy with the relationship set it right now.

Saturday 17 December 2011

Make her love you the more



Hello guys, I have pretty little secrets for you all who are looking for different means to make your woman to appreciate and love you the more. The truth is that, women are very complicated and they can change at any moment of time but one thing they have found so difficult to change from is the source that makes them feel so good and source of love. Women don’t need your money all they need is you which must be a source of love and a source of them feeling good.
It’s quite cool that ladies love good guys who love and care for them but sometimes you have to be complicated and keep them thinking and never be afraid of them leaving you. One thing ladies hate in this life is a perfect man! Are you shock? Please don’t be, because that’s the truth but most ladies don’t even know that.
Ladies hate a guy who is always upright; no mistakes, no hard times, always loving and caring etc. For you to keep the love growing, you must sometimes be a bad guy. Yes, be a bad guy sometimes. Ladies love good guys but they love it more when both factors are combined together-good and bad factor.
Being a bad guy does not include cheating and beating them up because these two will shrink them off from you. Some of the bad guy attitudes you should try to imbibe are, not always being available even when you are meant to be, be harsh some few times, shout at them some few occasions, withdraw some of the treatments you offer her that makes her seem very special. Just be a bad guy some times and watch out for great results. Best of luck.

Friday 16 December 2011

HOW TO KNOW IF HE LOVES ME

You need to know if the guy loves you understanding his temperament is very important. Most girls think that he loves her because he shows her care but forgetting that the caring attitude might be his nature. A melancholic temperament guy can love a girl but due to his serious mindedness, he may hardly show attention to the girl while a sanguine guy who by nature is friendly can show attention to the girl but may not actually love her, while some guys can show these good qualities just to get the girl.
I once ask some girls how they can testify if a guy loves them and some said that attention, care and being open proofs a guy’s love for them. The truth is that a guy loves you if he is willing to change a particular habit for your sake and also if he can do some things which he cannot do normally for anybody just because of your sake. This is how to know when a guy truly loves you; what feelings do you get when he looks at you? Does his eyes whisper LOVE?

IMPORTANCE OF JEALOUSY TO YOUR RELATIONSHIP

Hi friends, this writing will be short, I just want to highlight on the importance of jealousy to your relationship. Please, some people make the mistake of accusing their partner of being jealous, if I may aske you, can you actually feel good of not experiencing some atom of jealousy from your partner? This is usually common among ladies. They claim that what “I hate about him is that he is too jealous and possessive” jealousy is a necessary attributes to love. You can’t be jealous of something you don’t love. Even the bible told us that our creator is a jealous lover and we are his Image. The question I want to ask you is that, don’t you feel good when you find out that your partner is jealous of you over associating yourself with the opposite sex?
When my baby tells me that she is jealous of some of my actions with the opposite sex; it makes me feel so good of myself. It makes you feel wanted and desired, it makes you feel valued and appreciated. Go on and tell your partner how much jealousy you feel when you see him or her with the opposite sex.

The danger of carelessness in your relationship

Carelessness in your relationship is very dangerous, this is because, carelessness has destroyed some healthy relationships. Carelessness has to do with intentional or unintentional negligence to some important issues in your relationship. There is the need for you and your partner to take into consideration the need to communicate and expressing your minds. This will go a long way to point out what the issues are and avoid carelessness. If your partner says he or she does not like to be treated in a particular way, please, try as much as possible to store that and take care of it by making sure you don’t repeat it any time soon. If your partner does not like to be called some names, please do not call him or her that name. These things may seem normal to you and your friends but your partner does not like them, you have to take care of them. Some people are always careless on these things; they say they are normal and that their partner should understand. Be very careful and do care for your partner’s likes and dis-likes. We humans are never the same, my meat may be your poison. Little things may matter so much in your relationship; be very careful.

Tuesday 6 December 2011

The power of forgiveness and how to use it

Hello friends, how are you all?
What has your partner done to you that you find hard to forgive? Look one of the characteristics of true love is forgiveness. If you have the heart that forgives easily, your conflicts in your relationship will be in big trouble. Nothing is too big to be forgiven, try it. Forgive even when it seems so hard to.
Do you know that one of the best ways to make your partner to change from his or her bad characters is through sincere forgiveness? You may argue this but that’s the best truth you don’t know. Forgiveness have a way of making the person forgiven to always feel guilt than when the person is not forgiven. Now how do you use it?
Try as much as possible not to delay your forgiveness power, once he or she asks for forgiveness, please, just do it. If you can just forgive him or her for that terrible thing your partner did, he or she will remain quiet and guilt will dominate your partner. This will cause your partner to repent of it. Try and make forgiveness so easy because one day, you may make your partner annoyed and when he or she remembers how you have forgiven him or her easily, he will not have the power not to. Forgiveness softens the heart and strengthens love relationship.